委屈

cha·grin

SHəˈgrin/

noun

noun: chagrin

1. 1.

   distress or embarrassment at having failed or been humiliated.

   "Jeff, much to his chagrin, wasn't invited"

   synonyms:

   annoyance, irritation, vexation, exasperation, displeasure,dissatisfaction, discontent; More

   antonyms:

   delight

verb

past participle: chagrined; verb: chagrin; 3rd person present: chagrins; gerund or present participle: chagrinning; past tense: chagrinned; past participle: chagrinned

1. 1.

   feel distressed or humiliated.

   "he was chagrined when his friend poured scorn on him"

Origin

mid 17th century (in the sense ‘melancholy’): from French chagrin (noun), literally ‘rough skin, shagreen,’ chagriner (verb), of unknown origin.